Well, you’re going to try to see if there’s a way for him to rediscover you. It doesn’t matter who the guy is—an ex or a guy you’re flirting with, make him realize that you’re the one for him. But, with that being said, create the opportunity for him to realize his feelings for you.

1. YOU CAN’T MAKE THEM WANT YOU: You need to know this before anything. You cannot make them fall in love with you or miss you. You can create the opportunity for them to feel these emotions, but you can’t force them to feel this. If they don’t want to be with you, accept it, because it probably won’t change.


2. DON’T TRY TO GET HIM BACK: This is another classic error that women make while trying to decipher what makes a man miss a woman. Rather than playing cool, you try too hard. You shouldn’t need to work for his love. Yes, the distance is killing you, but if you look like you’re trying to snatch him, he’ll run. 

3. STOP CALLING AND TEXTING HIM: You cannot be chasing him if you’re wanting him to miss you. It’s our natural instinct to run after someone we feel we’re losing, but it never works. He’ll see this as a desperate and needy move which will only push him away. So, stop calling and texting him. I know it’s going to be hard, but he’ll have some time apart from you to think about you and how he feels without you. 

4. NO GAME PLAYING: Do you want to be an object that he won? No. You want to be someone he genuinely cares for, right? So, don’t play any games in an attempt for him to chase you. It is lame, and quite honestly, you’re not wanting him back for the right reasons.

5. GO SLOW: Listen, there’s no magic formula to this and it may not work. Sorry to tell you that. But this is what also makes it a challenge. Every man is different, and you don’t know what’s going on in his head. No matter what, take it slow. Don’t try to rush to get him to miss you and want you back. Give him space and show him that the world isn’t about him. 

6. GO EASY ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Everyone knows when someone is trying to get the attention of a specific person. If you broke up with your partner and all of a sudden are posting hundreds of photos of you smiling on Instagram–it’s obvious. And this is even a bigger turn off. Act how you usually would and not in a way to get his attention.

7. SPEND TIME ON YOURSELF: This is a perfect opportunity to give yourself some much-needed attention. Spend this time seeing your friends, going out, traveling or visiting your family. Reconnect with yourself and everything will become more clear. Maybe you’re simply wasting your time on a man who doesn’t deserve you.

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