SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE ADVICE: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE ENTERING INTO A MARRIED LIFE; LADIES' GUIDE FOR A HAPPY HOME



 Are you a woman of age or are you yet to get to the age of marriage? This doesn't mean, what matters the most is what is your plan for your marital life when the time comes? Some ladies have no time for themselves all in the name of marriage. There is the need to know the following before you enter into a man's home for marriage.

*1. HAVE SOUND VISION FOR YOUR LIFE:*  You are more than a cook and baby factory. You are on this planet earth for a purpose. What is your vision, what is your mission? What is your reason for existence? Never you forget not to give them up because you are now married. Marriage is good and necessary but that doesn't make it the end of everything.

*2. HAVE A SOURCE OF INCOME:*  If you have no job or business you are doing and you are looking for an ATM man to dump all your financial responsibility on, you will end up a leech, not a wife, a sucker, not a giver, a liability, not an asset, a burden not a burden-bearer! Get a job!. It's good good to be of financial help to your man in the time of hardship.

*3. TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY:*  Some ladies are in their twenties and they look close to their graves, why? How many children have you had? Why are you not firm, smart, healthy and attractive? If you have health issues, darling, pray for healing before you get married. With faith, you will be healed. If you eat junk, stop the trash and eat healthy food. Too much sugar, red meat, chocolates are not good for you. They are waiting to affect your body in the future. Some ladies don't see the need to seduce their husbands anymore after all they are now married but I tell you there is a possibility for the man to start looking outside.

*4. LEARN HOW TO ADDRESS A MAN:*  You don't talk to a man like your errand boy or primary school mate. You talk to him as your head with respect and honour. If you can't respect a man and regard him as the leader in your relationship, forget about marriage darling or you may end up divorced. Sometimes it is your responsibility to decide whether your home will be a happy one or not. No matter what happened do not let issues between you and your husband be settled in front of your children.

*5. LEARN HOW TO COOK AND DON'T FORGET TO TEACH YOUR CHILD/REN MOST ESPECIALLY THE FEMALE ONE/S:*  See, men don't joke with their stomach. Learn to cook different types of food and soup. Routine food eventually becomes tasteless and uninviting. Men love adventure. Children love adventure. Cooking different types of soup/ food make your husband stay at home and have no need wandering into bukaterias, cafeterias, eateries etc where daughters of Jezebel may seduce and snatch him from you! As you learn how to cook the foreign and international foods don't forget to learn how to prepare the local ones as well after all you never know the kind of man you will marry and as well as his choice of food


*6. LEARN ABOUT SEX:* please do no misunderstand this article. Don't go about practicing sex for God's sake, you are not yet married. A few months/weeks to your wedding, learn about your sexual anatomy, sexuality, reproductive organs, genitals, etc. Be familiar with your body and prepare for quality sex IN MARRIAGE. I get too many chats from naive, ignorant brides and it gets to me. Some even stay off sex for weeks or months on end after the wedding. What's the meaning of that nonsense? If you know you will masturbate or fornicate if you will learn about your sexuality then wait at least 2 weeks to the wedding and read! Take a mirror and look at your vagina, labia minora, labia majora, clitoris, vagina entrance, some say if you look close enough you will see your hymen. Each part has its functions in marriage. Get "EVERY WOMAN by Llewellyn, Jones Derek" and read. It will help you understand your body better as a woman.

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*7. BE THE ONE TO PRAY YOUR HOUSEHOLD OUT OF BONDAGE:* It is no more news that a woman who cannot pray is not ready for marriage! Your husband has a great destiny to fulfill, you have a great destiny to fulfill, your children have a great destiny to fulfill but remember the enemy won't fold his arms and watch, make it your duty that you will protect your family by soaking them in prayer! If you are a lazy spiritual bum as a single lady, your prayer life will end up a sorry case after marriage!
It is the dream of every woman to sing a song of a happy home after her wedding so before you become a wife, prepare well so you do not end up a failure in your husband's house. May the Lord grant you understanding. *
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